TalkinPeace: Why are you eliding grammar schools with selective schools? And working with a fairly iconoclastic definition of "selective", too? Your thread title suggests you want to talk about grammar schools, yet you're all over the place. If 45% of K and C parents send their kids private, by definition they are not sending them to grammar schools.
Kensington and Chelsea is is and is not representative of London. There are so many well-off people there. On the other hand, there is a great deal of deprivation, or there used to be, before the HB changes. It was a popular choice for hostels.
Honestly, the reason so much money was poured into London schools was because of the issues of deprivation impacting on children's education. A significant number of children in London do not speak English as a first language, speak English very little, or do not speak English at all. I know that this arises outside of London, but it arises a lot in some areas of London.
I really find it annoying that there is this idea that the majority of Londoners are very rich, toying idly with the decision to send their child to a private school or a grammar. A significant number of Londoners do not speak English in their home, and are light years away from being in any such privileged position. Many are in unstable housing and getting the children to school on the right day, at the right time, with adequate clothing and food is a struggle.
It is awful that media representations of London have silenced them and removed them from the picture of what London is and Londoners are, please don't repeat that injustice on mn.