Norude, you seem to be making a good number of assumptions and judgments yourself.
'So you don't think its unfair and judgemental to write that state school parents are more hostile?'
That is NOT what I said at all.
'Or that parents who don't have sufficient literacy levels to comprehend notes in a homework diary are going to be less interested in their child's education?'
That isn't what I said either.
'If you can manage it then why can't they.'
I have explained at length why it might be difficult. For example, I know of a number of cases where teachers have arranged meetings with parents and the parents haven't turned up or cases where there is a court order against the parent visiting the school because of acts of violence.
'I notice that you haven't mentioned that some parents who have chosen independent schools have done so because they don't want to top up their child's education and haven't got the time to provide support themselves due to working long hours to afford the fees.'
There are lots of things I haven't mentioned but I agree with this and again, it MIGHT be a reason why some teachers are reluctant to contact parents.
'You have said that you maintain good contact with parents and that is great, but what about the teachers that don't?'
What about them? I have told you that I maintain good contact with parents so you need to pick your fights with someone else.