I agree with laine in that considering the dire straits a family needs to be to qualify for FSM, in the first place, it's a minor miracle these children manage to even attend primary school on a regular basis...let alone get themselves properly prepared for grammar school entrance.
You mean that they can;t afford to have a tutor like your child LaQueen....
My brother was offered a Grammar School place ...we were at that time on FSM's my father had a slipped disc and could not work and my mother had never worked ...we were asset rich in terms of we lived and owned a farm but were cash poor ....life was a real struggle 3 children to feed...we had no bathroom (tin bath) or central heating - old drafty farmhouse ... It was very grim....
My sister went onto to become a Manager in a bank...
My brother is a Head of Finance of a large merged Local Authority
I was a Senior Auditor at a bank until I took redundancy recently ...
We all managed to go to school...I sat my A levels at night school because I needed to get a job and earn some money ...my brother did his A levels at school and then went onto a sandwich course whilst he qualified as an Accountant ..and my sister worked her way up through the bank from 16....
Its a real shame to hear some of your views on the less fortunate families .... you dont know their circumstances....yet you make sweeping statements that you are surprised they get their children to attend primary school.....
I know some single parents on FSM who are studying for degrees to get back into work their children are VERY bright .... and dont need a tutor to pass the 11 plus ....