I too am a governor of DD1's primary school (an LEA governor, not that it makes any practical difference to what I do). I agree that it gets easier to speak up after a little while. The training offered by our LEA is really good, if you can get to it - it has sometimes meant I have to taking a day off work, which isn't great, especially when combined with school visits, etc.
On the fundraising side of things, our PTA is fantastic and raises a lot of money from all sorts of activities. The school is only just over 2 years old, and I think the fact that everyone wanted to get it off to a good start helped.
We have a policy for governors' visits, (I do science, and had a really enjoyable morning at the school a couple of terms ago), which I think I could probably dig out if it would be helpful, capecod? It's mostly just common sense and courtesy, but helpful if (like me) you've had nothing to do with schools since you left school yourself, so you're not familiar with how things work. I'm also a Responsible Officer (inappropriate name, if ever there was one) - overseeing compliance with financial procedures. I have a feeling my LEA is the only one that has taken up this idea so far.
Timing of governors' meetings is potentially a bit of a difficult point. Most of the governors are also teachers, with a few parent governors and three of us who work full time in business/industry, etc. There has been a suggestion that meetings should take place at e.g. 4pm instead of 7.30pm, in the interests of maintaining the teachers' work-life balance. Of course, I think their work-life balance is very important and I support making it easier for them to maintain a balance, but if meetings are moved, it will effectively force me to resign - I already take 4 half days a year out of my holiday to do the science/responsible officer visits - I'd have to take another 6 half days a year for the committee meetings and full governing body meetings if they were to move away from the evening slot. It seems a shame, as there was a lot of encourangement by the LEA for people from business and industry to apply for governors' posts.