Hello Boschy. My 'rejection' by my Govening Body will make you feel that you have fared much better than me in the 'not wanted anymore' stakes.
I was the Clerk to a primary school governing body about 7 miles from where I live. I was the only Clerk who would clerk the meetings. None of the LA full time Clerks was up for the meetings at this school because they were so difficult, so they asked me. The meetings were awful. Frequently over 4 hours. As could have been predicted, school went into special measures. (A few years ago). Head went off sick and new acting Head appointed who was very young and had only had 2 terms experience of being the Deputy. Ofsted returned. Special measures again. Acting Head on maternity leave. Chairman of Governors resigned. Another Acting Head put in place and I, their Clerk, was asked to become Chairman of Governors and was appointed as an LA Governor. I had not been a Governor before but I did have years of experience as an Education Officer, including being head of Governor training before I gave up work. Sorted out a brand new Head who was excellent. Had another Ofsted and judged Good. Very hard work but we really pulled the school up. Everyone seemed pleased. Head left for another £10,000 a year. Appointed another new Head.
Lots of changes to the Governing Body. New Head did not want the nursery any longer. The Governing Body agreed. I fought to keep the Nursery. LA kept it because it was their nursery, not ours. School was in a deprived area so astounded we had a Head who did not want our Nursery. I started to notice she didn't like children much either. Lots of incidents with parents and children started to worry me. The other Governors thought she was great. At the start of her 4th term at the school she told me she was leaving. I was not to say anything to anyone. I did. I spoke to the LA about the timetable for replacing her. I also spoke to the Chairs of Personnel and Finance about adverts, job spec etc. We agreed all of these be prepared by me and the LA over the Christmas holidays for approval/amendment by the full GB in early January together with appointments to the shortlisting and interviewing panel.
To cut a long story short, the meeting was poorly attended but we worked through the agenda and after several people said they did not like the advertisement , we then arrived at the discussion about Panel members for the selection process. Not a single Governor suggested that I, the Chairman, should be on the Panel. The LA representative said maybe they would like to think again. They stuck with their decision that the Panel would not include me so I passed a note to the LA rep saying I was resigning from that moment and I walked out of the room. I never went back. I had truly spent hours and hours and hours at that school. I had been to meeting after meeting with the LA, setting targets, checking we were on track to improve, interviewing staff, going on school trips to help, doing as much as I possibly could to get better funding for us. I was the "expert" on the school budget, school improvement, target setting and a lot more.
I never saw any of this coming. A Governor who told me she was moving away became the new Chairman. It was definitely an organised coup. So Boschy, at least it was anonymous parents who rejected you, not your own colleagues. I note a lot of posters think that rejection should be accepted with a smile, however, I can assure you that when you have put your heart, soul, time and money (no expenses) into something you believe in, it is the absolute pits to have no recognition for all your work whatsoever.