Kenlee - can we take the aspirations of adults and parents out of the equation for a second, and consider this issue from the viewpoint of children, who surely, in strictly humanitarian terms, are all equal, and all deserve an equal chance in life? You are very fixated on the rights and freedom of adults to spend their money how they chose, to raise their children above others. How would you explain the justice of this to my 8 year old, who is currently being educated in a class of 31 children, with two children on school action plus, but with no statements, hence no additional support? From a child's viewpoint there is no justice. There is not a single way you could explain this to my children and children like them and not want to shrivel up in shame at the unfairness of it all.
"Again the children who have no support at home. Whos fault is that? I can only see two guilty parties...one being the parents. Two the government. I cant see the connection to private schooling"
Me neither - as long as these private are not given charitable status. If they have charitable status then they ought to do more for the most disadvantaged children in their communities, and the most disadvantaged children are those with special needs and those who have little educational support at home.
By the way - there are countries in Europe where children in state education do hugely well, and where far fewer parents send their children private. These countries tend to be those with vastly less social inequality than the UK and the US. Social inequality, like it or not, breeds unfairness and low standards in the public sector. You don't need to be a paid up member of the communist party to recognise the truth of this.
Would like to ask, if you couldn't buy your daughter an education which will probably thrust her ahead of children who are equally deserving, intelligent and hard working, how would your 'not tolerating mediocrity' express itself in relation to her learning? Would you spend more time working with her? Would you get involved in supporting her state school to try to improve their provision? I'm sure you would. Maybe choosing private education is just as much about the needs of adults to hand over as much responsibility for their children's education to another person as it is for the benefit of the child. And not to engage with ordinary families in their communities through their involvement with state schools.