I think it getting rather old hat that because I am poor the rest should be bought down to my level. I think we are all aware that Communism is dead. I work on the adage your rich and successful how do I get to eat your pie.
I'm not saying the poor are not disadvantaged because they are. I don't see the reason why If I can afford a decent education for my child by working hard first at school then in my area of expertise. So that my child has the environment to thrive in an independent school setting. That somehow I am a capitalist villain. Who wants to tread on the poor .
Lets face facts If I was a teacher I would teach in a private school. Why? because the kids know they have to behave and thus teaching is an interaction rather than a holding action.
Is it fair for the poor kids? No it isn't. I was top streamed in a local state school. I am BBC (British Born Chinese) So I endured the endless taunts of being ethnic Chinese. The occasional thump in the back for coming top of the class in which I replied with breaking his arm. The endless fights against not one but a gang of children who didn't seem to like an ethnic beating them academically....BTW I got an A for all my O'level and A'level they didn't come close. That is with working in the kitchen whilst doing my homework. Most of the time it comes down to desire. I wanted out of a 24/7 menial job...So I worked hard at school.
So as a parent do you think I would risk sending my daughter to such a school?
The onus is on the child..My friend who also attended UCL with me came from a family. Where both parents are drug addicts. They in his words have fortunatley died so his son would never need to meet them. His son is now in a private Indie school. Why ? in his words "because I can afford it and I want a better future for my child."
I hate it when people blame a section of society for all the ills that are in theirs. The onus is on you to work...Yes the work ethic is better in a private school....but I am sure even if your brother is playing Xbox if you wanted it. You can play but still get your work done.
Stop blaming the rich for being rich......Work out how to get rich...instead...
As for Private vs State....If you had the money go Private the teachers are better and the school dinners are fantastic.
O if this offends you I do apologize but I will not apologize for working hard making money. So my daughter can go private. It is my choice as a parent.
If this affects you in state school because we have paid and taken all the teachers that are in it for the cash and not for the lofty ideal of actually teaching children...Then we are doing a service to the state sector leaving only those that stay because they want to teach. There is always a positive somewhere.