rabbitstew - I agree with most of what you wrote there except that I think the majority will be outsourcing caring and feeling nothing but anxiety - they will be doing it simply to keep afloat. I don't think they'll even be thinking that they are pretty cool, and that caring is menial.
I also reckon caring, the caring we pay for, will be increasingly stratified: you really will know about it if you are going to pay for "good" care. And I think that is going to be interesting, because at the moment, what constitutes "care", and what differentiates qualities of care, is not completely "visible".
But I find your post really interesting. I think you are spot on about the sources of affectional and relational care are going to dry up, especially because retirement is going to disappear.
The impact of all this on care for the elderly hasn't even begun to be thought about yet by the majority of people.
I think this is a really interesting area, to be honest.
Though a bit grim.