I'm amazed to see you write this, BoffinMum: "But you can extend the parental role beyond this to the benefit of all children by sitting on governing bodies of state schools, fundraising for local children's organisations and so on. Impacting people beyond your immediate family."
I know you can be shot down in flames for advancing some king of Victorian, top-down, philanthropic idea.
I really like it, though. I read it as asking for people to care in a radical way for others, and for a re-invigorated public sphere.
It strikes me that it is absolutely out of step with the ethos of our current times.
I was listening to the Gove going on about competition in a global age. The whole discourse seemed to be about individual parents grabbing, and teaching their children to grab, as much "education" as possible. The value of that "education" resided precisely in how much more of "it" one person had in relation to a (global) cohort.
It was really sad.
But realistically, BoffinMum, and I say this because I remember some of the comments you've written at other times, and have taken them on board, we'd have to have a huge cultural shift to have people putting in effort to widen the educational experience for the children of others, surely?
And isn't it too late to ask for all this effort, now that women are working for money, in structured employment, in ever-increasing numbers?
I pose these as real questions because I really emotionally and intellectually endorse the idea of people working for a common good in education.
(And I liked many of your other proposals. And the poster who said "money".)