My DD1 has always done very well at school and is very bright, but can have a 'that will do' attitude.
She moved to secondary school in September, and after a positive start, we have seen a very definite slide in the quality of her work.
Homework has become very scruffy, poorly presented and 'minimalist'. Origionally, when she moved to secondary, we thought we would try the 'you need to be independent, the ball is in your court' approach and therefore trusted her to complete her homework to the best of her ability.
This, evidently is not working so now we are asking to see every piece of homework, and making her redo/ improve anything that we do not think is her best.
Obviously this is causing a great deal of friction, because as far as she is concerned if it is good enough for the teacher we should back off.
Why is the school letting her get away with it? If you look at her books, her Sept/ Oct work is so much more 'careful' than it is now. Should we make an appointment with the school and insist they are harder on her, or is that being really pushy?
HELP!