DS will be sitting 11+ in English, maths and VR in January, for a private school. He is currently at a state primary which does not (and will not) assist in any way with 11+ preparation (I have asked).
Over the course of the summer holidays we have done quite a few practice papers in the VR, which he has not encountered before. On the whole he seems able to answer nearly all the questions correctly. However, he is really struggling with completing the whole paper in the 50 minutes. I've explained that each question is only worth one mark, so if he hits a tough one, better to move on and go back to it at the end. He gets this concept but when it comes to it, every single time he will stick at doing the difficult question and then freaks out when he realises he then has only 10 minutes left to complete 45 questions. The earlier in the exam a difficult question comes up, the worse the effect on his mark.
With unlimited time he scores 85-95%. Being timed, it's anything between 65-85%.
Although he is fairly strong on both English and maths (he was a 5B in both at end of year 5), the timing problem is going to affect him in those exams too. At the moment we are not using a tutor but just doing practice papers at home.
I am really concerned that if he cannot get to grips with timing and exam technique, he will not be able to perform well on the day. Every time we sit down to do a practice paper, I remind him beforehand about not wasting too much time on tough questions, but to mark them to go back to at the end, and move on. Every time, he does not do this. What can I do to help him to "get" this? Do other children struggle with this aspect of exam preparation and what do other parents do?