my children go to a prep school with a headmistress. The bursar is retiring and we have just been told the new bursar is to be her husband . He appears to have the right qualifications. Is this something that often happens? Is it legal? Is it ethical? We also frequently have the chair of governor's company providing booksales at school. When short term jobs become available they often are not advertised but go to parents.Anyone had anything similar at their school?it just all seems a bit cosy to me.