Hi all,
Bit of a long story I'm afraid, but I'm hoping that somebody may have some words of wisdom for us.
We moved to our area last April, with a daughter who was 6 and a son who was 4. My daughter got a place at our local school straight away as they had space for her, although it's not our catchment school (bizarrely, despite having two schools within a mile - the one my daughter is at is 800m away - our catchment school is 4 miles away!).
However, my son was dealt with as a 'late admission' and didn't get a place at the same school as his sister. In hindsight, we should just have put her in at the catchment school, but as we weren't yet living in the area we had no idea how popular and oversubscribed our local school was, and hadn't expected to have such a battle to get our son in as well.
My son was given a place at our catchment school, and we decided to defer this until Easter (which is the term after he turns 5, so when he legally has to start). We thought that as he'd only just moved to a new pre-school, to start him at a new school last Sept and then hopefully move him to his sister's school when a place became available, would just be too unsettling for him. We were told (wrongly, it now turns out) that we couldn't appeal the decision as he was a late admission and the appeals process had already taken place. So my son was placed on the waiting list for my daughter's school (he was 8th on the list) and we kept hoping something would come available.
We have been in slightly unusual circumstances as we bought a derelict house which we've been renovating, and were living in a caravan in the garden. When October rolled around we decided that living in the caravan for the winter just wasn't feasible with two young children, so rented a room for them and myself in a local house. Prior to doing this we spoke to the council to find out how it would impact my son's position on the waiting list, and were told that if it was in catchment he would go to the top of the list (as he was the only one on it with a sibling at the school), so needless to say we made sure we found somewhere in catchment! The council requested various information from us such as statements from builders, photographs, etc, to show why we couldn't live in the house we'd bought and why we needed to rent somewhere else.
That was all fine (helped by the fact that the house had been declared uninhabitable during two inspections for council tax purposes), and my son was moved up to first place on the waiting list.
In February we found out a place was becoming available so needless to say we were ecstatic and thought he'd finally be able to start school with his sister. But on checking their records, the council informed us that they wouldn't be using our rental address as it turned out the landlord hadn't been paying council tax for us (he'd been claiming the single person discount) and therefore there wasn't enough evidence to use that address.
We gave them what we did have, but because my husband stayed in the caravan (we have a dog and two cats that needed looking after, and for insurance purposes had to have somebody living on site), we hadn't changed addresses on any post so this proof was limited.
So, we are now in the position that the place at the school has been offered to somebody else and we are back down the waiting list at no. 5. They will only use the house we are renovating as the address for my son, despite the fact that their own inspectors have deemed in uninhabitable!
Needless to say, I'm distraught, and the thought of my son having to start at a school that he doesn't know and which is over 4 miles away from his sisters, is filling me with dread.
We're going to appeal on the following grounds:
- that a mistake was made in not using the address we had for the rental property
- that another mistake was made when allocating places last year (we know they gave a place to a boy that is further out of catchment than us, who should have been below us on the waiting list, they've admitted it was an 'administrative error'). I'm sure the council will say that it wouldn't have made any difference to our chances anyway, but I don't see how they can know that for sure. At the very least, it's put us one place further down the waiting list than we should be!
- that it will negatively impact on my son. He is very shy and unconfident, and relies on his sister a lot, so to go to a completely new school with nothing familiar is going to be very hard on him. Add that to the fact that I've got no option but to be 20 mins late every day to pick him up, and that he'll have to be late getting to school, as there is 4.5 miles between the two schools, and I'm really worried about how he'd cope.
If anybody has any advice at all, I'd really appreciate it. I realise that the appeal is a long shot, but feel we have to give it a go for my son's sake. This is all a bit of a minefield for me and we were not expecting to be appealing, so any words of wisdom would be very gratefully received.
Thanks from a distraught and very stressed mother! :)