I need to keep this in perspective but am seething tonight. DTs (aged 10) have returned to school today, (fee paying prep school) ready for their second demotion into the very bottom maths set now. Previously, they were in the second from the top of 4 sets. DT2 has been upset and tearful all holiday about this lates demotion and was really feeling humiliated and ashamed when he went into school today. I've spent a lot of time reassuring him.
I had discussions with the school last term and was assured that this latest demotion is a really good thing as they'll be in a group of "only 14 pupils plus a TA" and the main teacher is "one they know and like".
OK, so today, I've found out that actually the group has 16 pupils, not 14 - but this is still much better than the 26 in their previous groups. I also found out that they will have a supply teacher for the foreseeable future as the main teacher - and the one with whom I had discussions last term about settling them into this demotion - is doing something else.
For DT1, this will now be his seventh maths teacher in the last year and a bit. This has been due to staff leaving and then the change of maths sets and then further staff turnover and a teacher retiring. I am sure this hasn't helped in my twins' decline in maths. I was assured by the school that they could now be in this little group with a lovely teacher plus TA and regain confidence, go over old ground and stabilise before they actually leave the school for the seniors next September.
Instead, there was no helpful welcome into the group and the teacher is a supply teacher, who didn't know it was their first time in this group. They told me they did stuff with her that they've done 2 yrs ago twice and their homework seems incredibly babyish compared with what they were getting previously. However, I'm trying to believe that doing easier stuff is going to help them with confidence - although surely not help them catch up with the rest of their cohort?
Anyway, to return to my point, does it matter if a child has lots of different teachers across a short space of time? My gut feeling is that it matters hugely, as a lot of what helped me as a school child was the good personal relationship with a teacher and the continuity - so that at least for a year, they knew me well and I knew them.
Am I overreacting today about the latest unexpected change of teacher? The main teacher is supposedly returning at some point but they only have 2 terms left here and this will mean they'll have a very short amount of time with the supply and the main one, given they've had yet another teacher for the first term (and as I mentioned, DT1 had 4 different teachers prior to that as well).