can parents help to teach a work ethic?

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Just listened to radio prog (You and Yours) on (un)employment and young people etc etc and one contribution went on about how schools don't teach a work ethic and pupils come out expecting a job but don't have the right attitude (we've all heard that before).

Now wondering about my teenagers and if they have a work ethic. They go to a good school (don't know if it teaches this), but do I send them up my chimney or only give pocket money when they've done their chores? Personally I don't like them helping to wash car or tidying room if they think they'll get paid.

Its a great list BigTilly I think "dying on your feet " is a bit over the top. Some bosses would not think that sensible.. Like a footballer trying to play on with a fractured shin. (Not good for his future)

I dont like Work Ethic as a religion. Its ok in practical terms when work is available. (thats a whole new debate)

I worked in offices and was in the army. In all situations. There were drivers and skivers. People with empty desks doing little other people overworked. Is that the way it is in reality? Thanks for your ideas.

Hi Chiili/Gabbi,

How are you doing? Hope you are doing well.

Great post Tilly.

Yes, you can definitely teach a work ethic. Work hard, show enjoyment and respect for your work and for looking after your home.

This can still be done in a home where the adults don't have a job, by keeping the house orderly, getting kids to school on time, keeping fit, and by showing daily interest in DCs homework and development.

I don't think example is enough though. I think you have to oversee some attempts of their own. If they want a big toy, help them save their pocket money and birthday money for it. If they kick up a fuss at doing piano practise or homework, explain they don't have to like it, but they do have to do it. Then ask them afterwards how they feel. They usually feel great for having accomplished it.

Great post Tilly.

Yes, you can definitely teach a work ethic. Work hard, show enjoyment and respect for your work and for looking after your home.

This can still be done in a home where the adults don't have a job, by keeping the house orderly, getting kids to school on time, keeping fit, and by showing daily interest in DCs homework and development.

I don't think example is enough though. I think you have to oversee some attempts of their own. If they want a big toy, help them save their pocket money and birthday money for it. If they kick up a fuss at doing piano practise or homework, explain they don't have to like it, but they do have to do it. Then ask them afterwards how they feel. They usually feel great for having accomplished it.