I'm currently using the finger phnics books with dd aged 4 at home. She has so far done books 1-3 and is beginning to blend. She also enjoys the I Spy games.
I do find though that I keep having to counteract her trying to sound words out using a ber cer, ser was quite hard at first but she has got the hang of sssss now.
Dh mentioned how well she was doing to the nursery staff the other day and didn't get much of a reaction. At nursery they do a different letter each week, they have to take in objects beginning with that letter and colour in worksheets with animals on eg ella the elephant and practice writing the letters.
Apart from the phonics we love the nursery and the school it is attached too. Once she goes into reception next September they will be using ORT. Do schools take well to children learning a different system at home, especially one that seems to go totally against what they are doing?