Hi,
My ds is 8, at international school (American curriculum), and we just got his report saying his maths is below the average for his age, and he needs to do lots of practice over the summer to be ready for the next grade.
I was aware he was struggling (recently started a different thread about our homework nightmares!), but he's only been at this school for one term so I hadn't really discussed it with his teacher beyond her mentioning that he needs a lot of support.
The report suggested that there might be gaps in his maths due to having been at so many different schools, but I don't really agree with this. I think he has genuine difficulty with mental maths, and it's not suddenly going to improve by staying in one place.
I think his teacher must have mentioned something to him about practising over the summer, because he came out of school today saying he didn't want to do maths over the summer, he just wanted a holiday. I see his point, but I don't want him to struggle even more next year.
It's a NIGHTMARE getting his homework done, he has such a negative attitude towards it. Trying to sit him down to practise addition and subtraction over the summer is not going to be fun. I'm thinking that my only chance of success would be to make the activities totally incidental and natural, so that he doesn't feel like I'm making him work. I had some ideas, e.g. adding up money, dividing up pizzas etc, but would really appreciate any more ideas.
I don't want to completely turn him off learning, because he's actually a bright and inquisitive boy. The learning issues he has are quite specific - difficulty with spelling (although not too bad and getting better), mental maths, poor listening and difficulty focusing (although if you give him instructions for a complicated lego model he will sit for hours until it's completed).
Would love to hear from anyone who has been in a similar position too. Thanks.