Will try to keep this brief.
DS1 starts school in Sept and we found out yesterday that he has been offered our third choice which is our catchment area school. The first two choices were faith schools and we attend church around once every 3-4 wks due to DH doing shift work.
When we applied for DS's school we did note that it said for us to back up his attendance at church with a letter from the vicar but as we applied online we detailed his attendance in the info boxes for both schools and couldn't see an attachment choice so presumed, naively I now know, they would contact us if they wanted it.
Anyway, obviously now we are about to appeal and although our Vicar is willing to give us a letter so we can appeal to both schools, I am worried it is just going to get thrown back out cause we didn't supply it in the first place.
I could cry, in fact I have cried! I feel like I have let my boy down big time through being naive. We are the first of our friends and family to even apply for a school place which is why I think we were so naive about it all and now I'm so worried we've screwed it up!
My concern is that basically both schools have no official places and they could argue, and i can understand why, that if we had supplied the letter in the first place then they would have given him a place and not another child.
I have today spoken to the appeals office at the council and they wont give me any guarantees, as expected, but have said to just get the letter in now.
Sorry, not so brief after all. I am truly gutted.