You have already given me lots of advice, for which I am very grateful, but our hearing is early next week and I need you all again! 
I'm the one with the ds with Aspergers that didn't get a place at grammar school. He was taken to the wrong place on the moring of the test etc etc. More details are on the last thread I started.
Anyway. I asked the school for the numbers of pupils they have in years 7 and 8, and although it took them a while, they finally told me in a letter that arrived the day before the royal wedding. But they take boarders, and they only gave me the numbers for day pupils. Even though that's not what I asked for. There are 104 day pupils in year 7 and 102 in year 8, even though they only say they offer 100 day places. There could well be less boarders than they expect though.
Not sure what to do about this. Any advice?
Also, just before I recieved the letter with the above information, it occured to me that I should get a copy of the invigilators report for the SEN room. Why I didn't think of it before, I wish I knew! I had been told on the phone when I first found out that ds hadn't been offered a place, that the test began at 9.11 on the morning of the test. I have the 11+ invitation letter stating that children should arrive in order for the test to start promptly at 8.45. I was told (and my ds confirmed) that the other children in the SEN room were waiting for ds to arrive before the test began. My biggest fear about the appeal is that the school will deny that my child was sent to the wrong room, and the only way I can vaguely prove it is to show that the test began later than it was meant to. I have nothing else to prove this happened unless ds comes with us to the hearing and tells the panel himself, or the school provide an itemised phone bill from the morning of the test.
Do you think it's worth submitting this? I only recieved the report today, and it's very messy after being photocopied and having other children's names blanked out, and it says nothing at all to indicate that ds was having problems. But that is to be expected, he has had years of practice at not drawing attention to himself, and he would not have asked for help. It did say that one of the prefects had to leave the room to get someone to stop hoovering at one point, and although I don't have any evidence to prove it, ds is quite noise sensitive, as are lots of children with AS. Also, I'm obviously concerned that it it very late to be submitting evidence. The earliest I could get it to the office is 1.00pm Friday via recorded delivery, and the hearing is Monday afternoon.
Obviously I don't want to annoy the panel by submitting late evidence, but I think this will be important if the school deny there was a problem.
Another thing that has just come about yesterday, is that my ds's primary school have sent home a plan for him, I'm assuming for SAT's, saying that his area of concern is 'stress in test situations related to emotional issues'. His target to be achieved is '1. to be able to fully demonstrate extent of knowledge in test situation' and 2. to raise self esteem and confidence in test situations'. Planned intervention is 'being placed in a small, user friendly environment where he can ask for help without embarrasment. and being aware that help is available and needs only be requested with a hand up
None of this has been given to us or used before, although I know that for his end of year test last year he was placed in a smaller room, and the form is dated 26th April.
Would this help our appeal as evidence that he was not able to perform to his best ability during the test? My feeling is that it would, I just wish it had come home sooner because again, I have the problem of submitting late evidence.
So after that much longer than expected post, what do I do?!
Thanks for reading if you got this far 