Have namechanged to protect anonymity.
I'm a Chair at quite a large primary age school. I've been Chair for 3 years. The school is only 4 years old - prior to that I'd been a Gov at a different school so when the school was created I was one of only a couple of us with any experience. And at this stage I do know my stuff - am on other County and Cluster committees etc. There are still gaps in my knowledge but I do at least know who to ask.
My problem is the other governors. I work very PT from home and all but one of the others work FT. So of course they are never available for anything - some try to an extent, but 95% of new staff interviews are down to me, 95% of daytime meetings are down to me; they are just never in school. And there are things that need doing - all sorts of initiatives, monitoring activities etc which I would like to see done and I just can't do it all. The school is Outstanding and I think that's despite the GB rather than because of it.
I sorted some training recently for us - despite having 2 months' notice, and despite the fact they'd asked for the training, two of them showed up. It was mortifying. I've composed so many hissy fit emails to them and don't have the guts to press send - I just don't know how to proceed.
The bottom line is that I don't feel I can complain too much because they have to work FT and I don't. But then I do have DCs and a life and other interests and maybe my self-employed PT work would be a bit less crap and PT if I wasn't spending so much time in school or dealing with school. I can't make them want to do stuff - I know they care, and they contribute usefully to meetings, and we all get on well, but I feel like they're taking the piss at this stage. I feel like just walking away, but I care too much to do it.
Any advice?