I've lived abroad for nearly 20 years and my children have never lived in the UK. This means my main ideas about British schools are pretty well out of date (I left secondary school in 1988). I've learned a LOT from MN threads, but I'd be grateful for anything you can tell me (and the DC) on the following topics:
School uniform.
I told DD that we had to wear a skirt (in a vile maroon) that was neither too short nor too long, not too tight, made of a foul polyester. Then we had white socks that HAD to be below the knee, and shoes, not boots. This meant in winter it was absolutely freezing. DD thinks this cannot be true and must be a violation of children's human rights - there is no school uniform at all in Germany, and kids are brought up to wear trousers, boots and thick layers in winter. So has your DC's school uniform become more humane with respect to the weather conditions? (Yes, I know that teenagers refuse to dress up sensibly anyway, but that's different from the school preventing them from doing so.) Can girls wear trousers if they want? How many secondary schools have compulsory tie for all?
Forced outside at breaks.
We HAD to spend all breaks outside as long as there was no precipitation, however cold it was. I remember us shivering in doorways in the playground in winter, counting the minutes until the bell went (and with that wickedly cold uncovered bit between sock and skirt). Surely this can't still be legal?
Separate lessons for 'handicrafts'.
In the early 1980s there was sewing and cooking for girls (boy, was I shite at both of them), and woodwork and metalwork for boys. Now this was clearly illegal, even then, so I'm sure it can't still exist now. Does that mean everyone does all of these skills, or are they not part of the national curriculum?
School hours.
What hours do your primary and/or secondary school open for? My primary was 9 - 3.15 and my secondary was 8.55 - 3.45 - has this changed?
Sixth form.
In my day you had first year infants, second year junior, fourth form in secondary school, etc. Now there's all this 'year 8' stuff. What do you call 'sixth forms' then? At my local school I think the sixth form has closed down altogether and kids go to a college for A-levels - is this part of a general trend?
Streaming.
Is it normal for kids in comprehensive schools to be streamed? Does this start in year 7 already, on recommendations from junior school?
I've read that British schools are incredibly reluctant for pupils to be in a non-age appropriate year (a year older than the rest of the cohort, etc). Why is this? What happens if someone is ill for most of a year - surely they must accept then that someone should repeat a year?
I'm grateful for any answers you can give in what has become a rather bewildering area for me. There really is no ulterior motive - we're not planning on coming back to the UK at all. I simply want my kids to understand the differences to their own experience of school.