Hi,
I recognise so much of Grovemum's experiences.
My daughter was recently identified as dyslexic just before her 18th birthday. She passed her GCSEs OK (with some module re-sits) but her difficulties came to light more fully just before A Levels when, although very bright, she kept failing the written exams. The school also used WRAT4 and found her reading and writing to be in the upper part of 'average'. However PhAB tests (looking at phonic awareness and processing speed) picked up difficulties. The SENCO suggested we get a private assessment done as the school couldn't organise one in time.
The private full diagnostic assessment found her reading, writing and processing speeds and short term memory skills to be well below average (below 9th percentile). The school gave my daughter 25% extra time in exams based on their own assessment, but did not allow the specialist's recommended use of a laptop for exams as they said they they could not provide the exam board with 'historical evidence of 'normal way of working'. This was purely due to late diagnosis and I have since challenged the school on this (complaints procedure in progress).
I think your daughter could benefit greatly from practical support in the classroom, such as laptop use for note-taking etc if writing is difficult for her. Also, like my daughter, she may find copying from the board and taking notes and dictation to be difficult. The teacher should provide clear and concise handouts to support learning and maybe also allow your daughter to record lessons on a digital recorder so that she can listen back again (this helps with the short term memory problems). No amount of support will make up for short-term memory difficulties or speed of processing, so the school should take account of this in the teaching methods.
Also, your daughter should receive support and help in developing strategies to cope with the short term memory and processing problems and the effect these will inevitably have on her personal organisation (does she forget homework, deadlines, etc?).
Also, if your daughter's original diagnostic report does not make any specific recommendations on support, or it is very out of date, I would be inclined to have a new diagnostic assessment done so that the school can put the right support in place. You may have to pay for this yourself and they are not cheap, so I would first seek advice with your SENCO or local education authority (ask for department that deals with special needs) to see if they can organise one through the school for free.
It is also worth noting that schools have to comply with legal obligations to support special educational needs. Dyslexia is covered in the Disability Discrimination Act (1995) which has now been incorporated into the Equalities Act (2005). It specifies that 'reasonable adjustments' must be made to support dyslexic people. I believe also that schools are covered by SENDA (Special Educational Needs and Disability Act). I would ask the school to give you a copy of their SEN policy and make sure that they are sticking to it!
It might also be helpful to look at the British Dyslexia Association and Dyslexia Action websites - and also to see if there is a support group anywhere near to where you live. There isn't one in my area, but I am hoping to get one started soon with a few other parents.
I wish you and your daughter well and hope that you are able to find all the support you need.