Hi Jelleybelly,
My ds had bone surgery in Yr 2, and was using a wheelchair for about 8 months and then had his leg in a full length cast for another 3 months.
Have you asked for a meeting with the Head, the SENCO and his class teacher? Tell them what will be required, that the hospital have said that there is no medical reason why he will not be able to be in school and so he will be in school, and how can you all help manage it! FFS, there's no point in them having an accessible toilet if they won't allow children who need it in school!
IMO schools are very inexperienced and unclear about how to actually deal with all this.
afaik, the school could put him on 'school action plus'. He won't need a special TA just for him - and it may also be that the Occupational Therapist (OT) from your local Social Services, and the Physiotherapist assigned to him can offer some help and advice to the school on how to manage. We had help from both those sources: SS OT brought a contraption for fixing above the bath and some excellent telescopic temporary ramps to put over our front doorstep - and they may offer to send an OT to school and advice on access.
The school also asked us to write a letter saying we agreed to DS being in school during his treatment and absolved them from responsibility, etc.
If they angst around about money, point out (research the details fost) that if he cannot be taught in school he is entitled to home tuition, which doubtless costs a fortune. DS's school got in a state about helping DS in the toilet, too and ludicrously decleared that an adult would not be able to help him (hold his leg up) in the toilet but one of his friends (aged SEVEN) would help. I wrote another letter confirming that I had no difficulty with an adult helping him, nor with him using the toilet usually reserved f adults (this seemed to contravene some part of Child protection).
Find out what thuer precise concerns are, and then assertively look for the solution. They just wibble, in my experienc, and need help and assertive conviction that it can and will be made to work!
Oh - and maybe get your consultant to e mail the school saying how iportant to the success of the treatment it is that he remains active and mentally positive and co-operative and therefore IN SCHOOL! And that ther is no mdeical reason for him not to be there.
And put out a shout out for JJ on MN - she has a DS who has had successful tratment fro Perthes.
Good luck!
Oh - is there any hope of asking the consultant to time the op so that it covers some school hols and you could make your hol co-incide?