The Beacon?s excellent, you very rarely hear of anyone who has had a bad experience of it.
Gayhurst more of a ?marmite? school, IMHO. I went there 30 years ago and hated it as, more recently, did 2 of DS?s best friends (13 now), but my godson loves it, as did his father who I first met there.
Will you aim for GS at 11+ or stay in the private sector? It makes a difference. For example, Caldicott is definitely geared more towards its pupils going on to boarding schools whereas the Beacon accepts that a large percentage of its boys will go to Dr Challoner?s.