I'm struggling to think this thru, apologies in advance if it descends to a ruck.
Friends of a friend moved their son to a different (much more expensive and prestigious) school because they don't like "the style" of teaching at old school: the main problem is apparently lack of motivation in the child (8yo boy).
The parents are fairly involved types, would be very supportive in his learning, I think, but I never thought of them as possibly "pushy" before.
I always thought of "motivation" as something that comes from within a person, with support and encouragement from parents+teachers, but fundamentally an internal thing: do I have the wrong perspective?
I partly ask because DS1 is quite bright but very lazy (homework is a constant battle), and I sort of feel guilty that maybe I should(??) have done more to make him more motivated -- better teaching, perhaps? Or is that a load of pants to think that way?
I had very few teachers (school or Uni) who I can call inspirational, perhaps it's just beyond me to understand teaching is supposed to be like that? Or is it? 