best way forward please, do I relist,, or file non bidding?

[davidtennantsmistress]

'sold' a bundle of clothes for £75 (after a best offer/counter offer), buyer accepted my counter offer, I sent invoice straight over & got an email back saying couldn't pay/can I find out how much relist fees are etc buyer will pay those.

am a bit upset, but that's neither here nor there now, I can't relist for the mo as I need to pay my fees (will do on sat am) but what happens about the transaction?

do I file a non paying bidder and claim fees back or do I relist and allow buyer to pay, tbh this whole thing has been a blinking hassle (the listing not the lady).

it cost about £4.50 to list it all as I had the bold bits/bobs etc. really I don't want th ebuyer to be out of pocket but then again neither do I.

If the buyer accepted your counter offer then refuses to pay you need to open an unpaid item dispute. You will get your fees back and then can relist.
Has she said why she won't pay?

can't afford it. think she accepted by mistake to be fair.

not keen on leaving neg FB thou, as she seems to be on the level, but then again I don't want to pay the fees twice (realised she's paid once but I feel cheeky asking her for my fees)

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I don't know. apparently was the wrong button? opened a dispute, stating to mutually withdraw the transaction or something?? is all finished with now. what happens to the listing on my sellers account? the dispute is now closed but it's still showing as owing etc?