I took the negative and moved on, Aims.
But if he paid through PayPal then be warned he could pull an 'item not as described' number and PayPal will refund him through your account.
So pull out before you contact him.
I had a contact at the Ombudsman and he sent me a letter to send them, knowing they'd have to pay for an investigation if I reported them, so they gave me back the money my rogue buyer had gotten and I deleted my account.
Havent been back on Ebay since and not missed it.