I've not really sold much on Ebay though I do buy a fair bit on there.
I listed a sofabed for £350. It's in excellent nick and I listed it cash on collection as I'd heard of people paying by Paypal then somehow ending up with the goods they'd collected and a Paypal refund.
A buyer wants to arrange collection and pay by bank transfer without even seeing the sofa as she lives 250 miles away. She seems very nice - been a member for 10 years and a decent history of buying/selling - good feedback.
My sister fell for an Ebay scam as a buyer and lost thousands of pounds so I'm wary but I don't know how it could be a problem if she pays by bank transfer rather than Paypal. Am I being naive? And what if she didn't like the sofa? She's taking a lot on trust if she's genuine.