@mollyfolk @parietal
Thank you for taking the trouble to reply. It means a lot.
DD has, in about 18mo, gone from a v healthy weight and fitness to having a v high bmi. She is technically very overweight. The GP is also concerned, though gentle about it.
I am no angel or Nigella, but we eat mostly home-cooked food, with a variety of carbs, protein, fats, roughage, vitamins.
DD started by, and continues to, helping herself to food at home: last week she ate the chocolate Easter egg with two Crunchies, packet of mini eggs and packet of Oreo's we had bought to make DS's birthday cake.
She has also, since starting secondary school in September, found ways to buy quantities of food we had not imagined until very recently. In two days she can get through two or three packets of Pinballs, two double packets of Bourbon biscuits, a bag of Starburst, and I can't - because I am upset and being nagged right now - remember what else. I find the empty packets and wrappers in her bags and blazer.
In parallel she does almost no exercise during weekdays except swimming once a week, plus swimming and/or going out with family at the weekends.
I don't like demonising food, but refined added sugar is not necessary in our diet. I don't even mean that DD should never eat it again - though she might need a circuit break. I am not a stranger to eating and body image problems, and in a million years I do not want to pass that on to my beautiful girl. But I'd rather approach this myself, than that she start getting teased, or even bullied.
SO, my intention with the videos is to sit the family down, explain we have all in our own ways begun to eat more and more confectionary etc.. and that as a family we needed to understand why it needed to change. Then we can talk about when we can have sugar treats, and what other foods we could have as treats or snacks. Plus any other advice hat makes sense here.
I hope that answers your concerns. Again, thank you for taking an interest.