My Eldest has battled anorexia since their teens. They are highly intelligent, anxious and on the autistic spectrum, and any big change in life is a trigger for ED.
They have been seriously unwell quite a few times (inpatient, tube fed, ED unit etc) but despite this has a professional career.. unfortunately one of the most stressful imaginable (but loves their vocation) They've been well for a good few years now and has good insight into their own mental health.
Out of the blue their partner has had an affair and left. Partner (they are married) has been the stay at home partner, not worked due to anxiety (but somehow well enough to go shag someone else) never contributed to the house, mortgage, anything, but now wants half of everything, including DCs pension etc.
The spiral of heartbreak and stress has sent them back into anorexia...and deteriorating rapidly.
I understand why, completely. But it's breaking my heart and this is awful to say, but I feel so exhausted by the mental stress. I care for my disabled youngest child, my grandchild, and work part time, and trying to support my eldest again , both from a distance and in person, juggling them all to try and be there for everyone.. it's breaking me.
Just HOW do I support without falling down a black hole myself please?
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StillMedusa · 03/01/2023 23:36
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