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Bulimic and pregnant

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missj1992 · 09/03/2020 13:18

I've always had a problem with addiction. It always started with my weight, I was an overweight child who turned to bulimia in my late teens. At uni I would calorie count and eat no more than 400 cals a day some weeks, binge eat and purge others. Then when I started adulting I started drinking because it was another way to self sabotage. At first there was nothing of me because I was over exercising to make up for going out, and drinking at night instead of eating. But overtime I put on a lot of weight when my drinking became more of a problem. I'm 2.5 months sober, because I stopped drinking as soon as I found out I was pregnant. - This has weirdly come so easily to me (which has never happened before, being in and out of rehab) but now once again I've swapped one addiction for the other and I can't stop overeating, feeling guilty, and then making myself sick. The worst part is I've been bulimic on/off for so long (11 years give or take) that it comes so easily and naturally to me - I literally can make myself sick without putting my fingers down my throat. In fact sometime I eat so much that my body encourages it.

The bottom line is I'm super concerned - I'm 27 and a very normal weight (59 kilos and 5'5") but I've still lost 5 kilos since I got pregnant. I really can't afford to keep this up. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and I'm so scared that I'm going to hurt the baby but I can't seem to stop myself. - Help please!

Does anyone else suffer with cross-addiction? Has anyone suffered with bulimia during pregnancy? It's a scary thing!

OP posts:
MissRR09 · 27/06/2021 18:05

Hi, how did you end up getting on with your pregnancy as I’m in the same position?

Lavender24 · 30/06/2021 09:45

@MissRR09

Hi, how did you end up getting on with your pregnancy as I’m in the same position?
Hey, I'm not OP but I have had bulimia since I was 14 (now 30) and I had a baby in 2018. I struggled to stop purging during pregnancy. Like OP my body just naturally rejects the food a lot of the time as my stomach is fucked. I didn't purge all of my food but still did it at least a couple times a week. When I started to feel movement at around 18 weeks I started to feel very guilty as it all seemed a lot more real. I managed to stop by the time I was about six months pregnant although I did become very sick for other reasons at around seven months so could barely keep food down anyway. Btw my daughter was born prem but healthy (her prematurity was because of my T! diabetes and not the bulimia). Good luck with your pregnancy!
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