Not sure if this is the right place to post but I'm in need of some guidance.
My DD used to be very active and a result was very lean. She is now doing less sport so has put on a little weight. She has also slowed down in her growing. She has now put a bit of weight on and where she almost had a 6 pack she is looking a bit rounder. She had the year 6 height and weight measurements and is at the very top end of normal.
She is now becoming very concerned about her weight. She is always saying she is fat and she pulls at her tummy. It wasn't helped by a boy in a class calling her fat and laughing at her in a gym class.
I am so unsure of what to say to her in case I make things worse. I want to support her but don't want to make food and her weight a big deal. This morning she didn't have breakfast and had a mini meltdown over her lunch. I am sure this is to do with her concerns about her weight.
How would you deal with this? I am trying to get her to eat healthy snacks and we both went on a bike ride this weekend so will continue this way. I am quite unfit so I think I will try and get her to accompany me on walks and rides. She also does other sports but she gave up gymnastics that she was training 6 hours a week with as she kept getting injured. I want to help her but don't want to say/do the wrong thing and make things worse.
TIA