Hi, first time poster here
We are a FF couple getting ready to start our TTC journey in the new year. I have a very close friend who is willing to donate sperm to us. It's something we've spoken about for years and now the time is finally approaching.
We love the idea of using him so we can each (hopefully) carry a child with our own eggs, and the children would be genetically linked to each other through the sperm donor.
The donor is married (to a man) and has never wanted children but happy to donate to us. He doesn't want any involvement other than to be the "fun uncle".
To protect ourselves and any children in the future I spoke to a solicitor about drawing up a pre conception agreement however they said as the law hasn't caught up with the times, the agreement wouldn't hold much weight on court if we ever ended up there. So there didn't seem much point spending a lot in legal fees to get a contract drawn up for it not to be worth the paper it's written on.
For peace of mind and so all parties will know exactly where they stand, we would still like a written document signed by all parties. Does anyone have a template we could use as a starting point? Or maybe further resource we could look into?
We are married so my DW will be able to be named on birth certificate as the other parent so no concerns there.
Anyone with any advice or been in the same boat?
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CadoAvo · 01/12/2023 10:47
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