Hi. I am 40 and a single woman. I just did my first round of IVF and was told to come in today to check if I was pregnant. I had ALL the symptoms and perhaps my expectations were very high, but I was so sure. I got a HCG of 1 and was told it was for sure that I am not pregant earlier this evening. Now I am getting cramping and obviously feeling devastated. It could be the power of the mind but I’m blown away and confused. Could it be wrong?
I moved from the UK three years ago and now live oversees. I have come especially to have IVF as where I live it really isn’t an option (another continent) and I’m more secure where I feel comfortable. This has been so expensive in terms of time and finances and emotions. And I’m getting so frustrated living out of a suitcase! But now with nothing to show for it 😔 I don’t know how to proceed now? How soon can I implant my one good frozen egg ? Did I do something to contribute? I’m just so confused upset and angry. Please let me know if anyone has had anything similar. 🙏
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Babytales13 · 29/05/2018 23:07
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