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To go for the job that’s good on paper or the one you liked better

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JennyEag · 05/12/2023 22:13

I’m absolutely exhausted and am really struggling job wise/mentally over the stress of this decision. I moved from a Paramedic job in the Ambulance Service earlier in the year to one in a GP surgery for the progression in terms of qualifications, better hours, more money (long term once fully qualified) but I really haven’t fitted in, the GPs are lovely people and are encouraging and are putting me on extra courses however I’m struggling with the workload and really feel the pressure. Im also terrified I miss something and a patient comes to harm as some getting booked aren’t always appropriate for my skillset. I have brought this up and it has improved/ reception have had more training but some still slip through. I have my breaks and lunch alone every day because nobody comes out of their rooms so feel lonely and isolated. I also don’t like some of patients as due to the pressures/waits/possibly seeing me they can be quite rude and stand off ish (not blaming them as I get the frustrations). In my old job people were generally grateful to see you and the colleagues were fantastic. I have discussed with my old boss about going back but am terrified that I’ll regret giving up the progression, hours I’ve gotten used to and perhaps looking back with rose tinted glasses as obviously the ambulance service is no picnic but at least it’s one patient at a time, not being rushed whilst with them, support from management etc

would you stay at a job with better opportunities vs one you were happier in?

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Rollinghill · 05/12/2023 22:15

Gosh that's difficult isn't it. How long have you been in the new job?

It might not necessarily mean moving backwards, you will have gained new skills and experience in the new job.

MoreHairyThanScary · 05/12/2023 22:20

Could you look for similar in a different surgery.

I'm a DN and the surgeries I work with definitely have a more social feel with the Drs meeting a breaktimes.

As I've got older I really appreciate the move from shift work and it's not something I would go back too in a hurry!

JennyEag · 05/12/2023 22:23

I’ve been there 8 months now. You’re exactly right I have learnt loads from it. I just thought I’d love it when I first started and it really hasn’t gone that way for me.

I am an anxious sort anyway but I’m really struggling decision wise.

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JennyEag · 05/12/2023 22:28

Perhaps I could look at other surgeries I hadn’t really thought of that. Everyone seems to rave about this surgery saying how it’s one of the better ones in the area so maybe it’s just me.

A lot of people I’ve spoken to say that about the shift work too, I’m conscious at the moment it doesn’t affect anyone other than me (no kids) I do worry about the future though, but then again I could do more hours over fewer days doing shifts and be off more? I don’t know

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lostingreyclouds · 03/03/2024 23:38

@JennyEag how are you getting on now?

I'm in a sort of similar position in that I left the ambulance service and joined PIP disability assessing - handed my notice in after less than 2 months and now trying to work out what to do.

An ex-colleague has suggested GP land, and another works as a 111 clinical advisor, and I'm really struggling to pick.

On top of which I have zero mojo at the moment...

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