My husband and I have been going through a rock patch and I am on the verge of ending the marriage and leaving him and moving out of the martial house it's all ways me who is doing the homework and working full time and he just sits at home during the day doing nothing he is not sick he has just chosen not to work anymore and we are both in our 50s me 56 him 57 and we have got children together as well and all we do is argue constantly started by him because I asked him to help me do the housework and he doesn't do anything and he doesn't help with the children and it's getting me down I am just hoping for someone who has been through it or someone to give me a hand hold