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How to support a separating spouse without becoming their only support

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HumorousEagle · Yesterday 22:18

My wife and I are in the early stages of separation. She initiated it and I’ve come to realise it was the right call. She’s been wanting to lean on me for emotional support recently, and I’ve obliged because she’s really struggling mentally. I find it draining though. Sometimes I barely have the bandwidth to care for myself. She says I’m the only person she can open up to. I’ve urged her to seek out medical/professional support if she thinks she needs it but she’s resisting. I really feel for her and I want to help but I don’t know if I can always be there for her right now. I’m worried about her. Anyone have any advice?

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Avemariamacchesney · Yesterday 22:20

If you are separating then you are no longer required to be her emotional crutch. Honestly, just stop. You will be doing her a favour in the long run.

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