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Divorce/separation

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Financial legal agreement needed?

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Frikkinperiod · 18/05/2026 07:40

XH and I separated for 6 years. Finances sorted amicably 4 years ago. We share a teenage son. We never processed the divorce paperwork, so we're still married.

I bought a house with new partner a couple of years ago. A friend told me at the weekend that XH has a claim on my new house as we're still married. I now see this was a massive mistake on my part.

As XH and I are happy with how the finances were sorted years ago, can I just start the divorce online today? Or do I need to get some sort of financial agreement prepared that is legally signed off saying we're both happy with what we arranged?

Thanks

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TinyMouseTheatre · 18/05/2026 07:47

You need legal advice and quickly from a decent Solicitor specialising in divorce.

PenelopePinkerton · 18/05/2026 08:02

Oops. As above, get legal advice asap.

millymollymoomoo · 18/05/2026 08:02

You can start the divorce process online
you can complete form a and d81. If you are still amicable you can fill these out together.
my ex and I drafted sll
these together, and our own consent order and we did not use solicitors.

however, if it’s contentious in any way or involves pension sharing you’ll need a solicitor and your new house could well get drawn in.

Is your ex likely to be reasonable and can you do them together ?

millymollymoomoo · 18/05/2026 08:17

What you need is to

get divorced ( start online)
get a clean break consent order ( firm a plus d81 plus written consent order )

you don’t actually need a solicitor if you can submit jointly.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 18/05/2026 08:23

My friend's ex husband came back years after divorce and got part of her house.

Frikkinperiod · 18/05/2026 18:21

All amicable. He won't try and get my new house. He's not that type of person.

I've given him a call and he's happy for me to begin the process today.

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