My ex partner is not from the UK and he submitted a leave to remain application after our son was born. He has been sending money here and there but I realised I am probably not getting as much as if I put him on child maintenance, and it would be a guaranteed regular payment. His other baby also receives child maintenance but he does not see her.
He is begging for me to wait until his visa has been processed because then he could get a more stable job with more hours, and I think he’s panicking that CMS will take more when he needs to “pay his rent”. I do believe it’s true he isn’t working much but he would have savings.
Should I completely disregard all that and just put him on it as it could be months til his visa comes out (if at all but I do hope so), or should I continue to be “understanding”….