I have a different username but I used to post a lot on here about my relationship.
Husband had depression and has never fully returned to "normal" from it completely withdrawing from the family for the past 5 years and happy to just sit and watch tv 24/7 for the rest of his life whilst dragging us all down.
Ive been so scared to do it , but today I have finally told him and the ball is now rolling . Today is my first step to a new life. I am ecstatic and terrified in equal measure.
We are now in this horrible limbo part where there is a horrible tense atmosphere.
He has said hes going to move out which is the best result I could have hoped for ,but today is only day 1 and things could change. Anyway, what will be will be. Ive told him im deadly serious. He doesnt agree with anything ive said and just thinks me and the kids should happily live this way. For once im standing up for myself and putting myself first instead of him.
I may post a fair few times on here looking for advice in the coming months depending what happens.