I posted yesterday about finances when separating so I know what needs to be done there but today I just feel broken, I can’t stop crying. We don’t argue but he says the closeness has gone and he doesn’t think we can ever get it back and he doesn’t even want to try. He insists there is no one else and I don’t see how he would find the time as he only ever goes to work or he’s home. We have two kids 20(m) and 14(f) it is going to break their hearts especially the 14 year old as they are both adopted and have suffered so much loss already. My mood keeps swinging from devastation to burning rage, I love my husband so much but hate him for putting us through this. He has depression and I don’t know if that is why he feels how he does or if it is the situation causing his depression, he did have some counselling but his therapist left and he has just been left to get on with it. I just don’t know what to do next. I am really struggling to let go and keep clinging to the hope that he will get better and realise it was the depression causing him to feel this way.