Afternoon. I can't get out the habit of using 'we' when talking to other people. It's like I've forgotten how to just be me and I feel pathetic. Did anyone else get stuck on this?
Some background, Divorce is ongoing, very amicable, probably because I don't actually feel like its real yet. STBExH came out almost a year ago, turn out he'd lied to me for our entire relationship, we are still both living in the family home, but I am due to move out next week into my own lovely house. I am devastated at my failed marriage, I honestly though he was a good guy.
I think that's what is stopping me from moving on, I genuinely feel I'm living the worst parts of being single and the worst bits of being in a relationship. I absolutely cannot wait to move out into my own space but I am also dreading it a bit too which I realise is crazy talk, We will have the kids 50/50.
He has well moved on, took his wedding ring off immediately, never uses 'we' anymore, I guess I am just struggling with moving on, despite it definitely being over