Ex DH will receive his C100 today

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Hes in work right now and the envelope could well be sitting there waiting for him… he doesn’t know that I’ve filed. He’s going to go NUCLEAR 😱

Has anyone got any experience with what happens now? Apparently CAFCASS will get in touch. Thanks.

What are you applying to court for?

For a schedule regarding co-parenting as it’s currently all over the place, completely random week by week and there’s been quite a bit of “nonsense” and failure to co-parent properly. Refusal to attend mediation too and generally being as difficult as possible.

What sort of things will cafcass ask me?

What you want to happen, and if you have any safeguarding concerns

Eg if you want a pso to stop him collecting them from schools on random days explain why to them

Thanks. Not a good night tonight, unfortunately the c100 form was delivered on the day my ex had the children and he’s told them everything. Saw oldest today and he said “amazing mother, taking me to court” 😢 Oldest then revealed that ex had shared everything with him such as word for word the separation letter I wrote, all about mediation, our finances and intimate details about our marriage and how it is all my fault. All I could do is reassure them about how much I love them and they don’t need to worry about any of that, just focus on being a child and seeing their friends. I did say sorry for all they had been through and said they deserved better.

Has anyone got any experience about exes sharing court documents and adult issues with the children to paint the other parent in a bad light? I left due to abuse and controlling behaviour. Thanks.

How old are the children?
Bear in mind a court order cannot force him to stop behaving like a dick. It can enforce times you each have to make the children available to the other parent but it can't prevent them from changing plans last minute, cancelling contact and generally fucking about.

True. I don’t think anything will stop him behaving like a dick 🙈