I told my husband I didn't love him a year ago and tried to work on things but I feel he's pushed me away at every step. He's insulted me, name called and threatened in front of our children and blames me for breaking the family. I'm a terrible mother for wanting to be away from my children for half their life (that's not true at all - I just feel so miserable around him that I truly think I'm a better parent for now living separately as of the last month. He's constantly accusing me of having found someone else and can't face facts that I'm just so unhappy with him. He's stepped up a lot more and I think he's trying to win me back but when it doesn't work, he kicks off and says I'm being selfish or looking for something better and insults me physically or sexually. Am I being selfish and will I regret this?!