Please help…. Im currently going through separation from partner I have been with on off for 15 years. We have a daughter together whos 10. I feel absolutely overwhelmed and broken at the moment, as im moving out of marital home, to a property i bought 5 years ago, when we separated. We’ve always had a turbulent relationship as i realise our needs are different. Partner works away a lot and has very stressful job, which has caused a few arguements along the way. Mainly our disagreements are associated to his drinking at home on friday and saturday nights, without fail, every weekend of our lives. I’ve highlighted this to my partner on many occassions as he does not seem to realise how its affecting me as his partner. Last september, we had a massive row, where i said i couldnt tolerate it anymore as it was having such am effect on my self esteem. I dont think that a partner staying up drinking on social media every weekend is good for any relationship. My concerns have always been met with ‘your a nag’ ‘its normal’ and ive never been listened to or understood. Overall he is a good person, but selfish and always has been. In the last few months, things have been awful, he has without a doubt met someone else and is so cold and adamant its over, whilst im heartbroken, blaming myself for the relationship breakdown for being the way I am. I realise that the way i respond to situations in our relationship is a lot down to frustration of never being listened to, never understood and always being made out to be the problem. He is ultimately blaming me for everything. I feel like ive ruined everything, although I know deep down its not all me. Feel heartbroken. Any advice… to get me through this please as im struggling to cope with it all.