I don’t necessarily need advice but feel the need to write this down for my sanity. Married 15 years mostly unhappy. No kids (tried but failed and ship now sailed for me anyway). We went on holiday last September and agreed we’d reached end of the road. It transpires that at that time his head was being turned by someone (much younger) and although nothing happened there was a possibility it would. I was fine with this because I’ve been
unhappy for a while so to end things amicably and mutually was a blessing. Fast forward 5 months and his previous interest has gone (she’s not interested), I’ve lost weight and have been dating and generally enjoying life. I’ve walked in the door tonight to a barrage of shouting from him, saying he’s not going to sell the house or do anything it’s all on me. He’s admitted he’s feeling sorry for himself but he thinks maybe we moved too quickly to separating and should’ve had counselling. It’s the last thing I want to do and so I won’t do it, but isn’t this just the cliche situation?!!