Dating and intimacy after a year of separation - how do people approach this?

[Jigs455]

A slightly personal question but asked genuinely. I have been separated for a year and haven’t been sexually active during that time. I focused on stability, parenting and work rather than dating.

I am now considering meeting someone but feel unsure about the right pace and expectations around dating and intimacy after a long break.

How did others handle this without feeling pressured or rushed?

Listen to your instincts. If it isn't right for you, dont go ahead.

If youre using the dating apps, keep a thick skin. Always tell someone where you are going and who youre meeting.

Stay safe and enjoy!!

Oh and lots of people will be dating many different people unless youve had an exclusive chat. Not everyone but lots do.

I was single for 6 years and had a few OLD. When I met someone I felt v comfortable with we were intimate on the 6th date at just under a month from first message.

But I would say it was 100% at my pace (and my initiation!). I wanted to ensure we were compatible on that front before getting in deeper.