Neutral advice needed.. I will present facts, you tell me if this marriage is dead or alive
>DH has high levels of irritability which seems to be getting worse with his age. If I point it out then he says you can talk. Or ‘whatever’. There is always a snappy comeback
>DH has told numerous times that he is done with the relationship. Or I can’t take this anymore. It doesn’t take much. Then the next day says it was said in anger
>DH has to have the last word and always speaks over people
>DH manages to go out with his mates/football/work events regularly during the week. It started as one night, now it can average about 2. I can’t remember the last time we went out.
>DH has thinks it’s ok/appropriate to tell me I am an immature child, need help, that he is the only person who does anything in the house. That I need to stop shouting and screaming, stop ‘going mad’ and the like if I ever call him out on anything.
>DH is a great dad but likes to have an opinion on everything. I mean everything.. Gets highly annoyed if he has not been told, basic stuff has not been run past him. No space to breath
> i appreciate that DH is under allot of stress, as am I. We both work full time
> we both work from home during the week so appreciate it can get abit much as we see each other around the house during the week. Is this what retirement is like?
> romance = watching Netflix.
there is more but let’s start here