I have been with my partner for just over 2’years, we share one child together. I have children from a previous relationship and so does he. Everything was great at first, we spent time together, had family time it was happy. Then I fell pregnant and everything changed. I would like to say he has ASD and EUPD. His behaviour changed and mine changed along with it. He became an increasingly jealous, got upset if I didn’t reply right away, accused me of affairs. The further along in my pregnancy I got the worse he got. I had to leave work earlier than planned due to being anaemic and struggling with his behaviour. He then blamed me for this and said it was because I’m lazy. He made me carpet the stairs at 9 months pregnant because I suggested I could paint the landing while he carpeted. Things just got worse. We are now at a point where he criticise everything I do. I get daily comments and out bursts from him. I’m now at a point where I don’t know myself anymore, I’m a wreck, cry all the time, can’t eat, dont shower and I’m under the mental health team. Every time I tell him how I feel I get comments that I’m selfish, don’t care about him, unsupportive and just trying to manipulate him. I have ended the relationship multiple times, kicked him out then he convinces me we should be together, that my son needs his dad and we end up back in the same place. He blames me for my reactions to his behaviour, i admit i have very little tolerance now and i end up upset very easily. I feel like im on eggshells all the time and a prisoner in my own life. I have ended it again and hes due to leave today after another round of me being blamed for something not entirely my fault and being accused of ruining his life. He’s convincing me this is my fault, I am at fault, it’s my mental health that’s caused this. Someone please help