Hi everyone, I have been suffering with a very high conflict and narcissistic ex partner for quite some time and I’ve put up with workplace stalking for quite some time, him looking through my windows when he collects the kids, withholding the schedule, not telling me collection times, trying to get me to sign documents to withdraw my rights from the martial home etc. the stress got way too much and I came to stay with family. I don’t want to return to my home town, I have permission from the ex to move with the children 30 mins away. I need to get away from him. The stress is unbearable. I want to keep my address private so he can’t do these things. I want to feel free.
My workplace have been so unsupportive I’m currently off sick with all of the stress, they have been ignoring my transfer requests and trying to get me in for an OT meeting. I’ve expressed that harbour and my health visitor are supporting the move and police are now involved for stalking and coercive control. I feel trapped and like this man has ruined my life. What can I do? My friends have turned against me because I want to move home. I’m absolutely devastated. I’m just doing best for me and my kids and I feel so sad.